Two steps: hold the time, then confirm it
To “pencil in” a meeting is to write it in pencil: it can still be rubbed out. The hold protects the slot while one condition is open, here a flight and a train; the confirmation settles it.
Listen and answer: is the meeting final at the end? Who sends the risk summary, and when will Maya confirm? (No, the room is only held; Maya; by three.)
Maya Hello Owen. I’m calling about a first planning meeting for the Helsinki launch.
Owen Good to hear from you. Would Tuesday afternoon suit you?
Maya Possibly. My flight lands at twelve thirty. Could we pencil in two o’clock provisionally?
Owen Yes. I’ll hold the room until four today. Can you confirm after checking the airport train?
Maya Certainly. I’ll confirm by three and send the risk summary beforehand.
Owen Perfect. I’ll send the visitor details now.
Suggesting a time and holding it politely
“Would … suit you?” leaves the choice to the other person, so it sounds more polite than “Is Tuesday OK?” “Possibly.” warns that a condition is coming, and “hold” means reserve for a short time. In a first email, open with your reason: “I’m writing to introduce myself and suggest a meeting.”
- “Would Tuesday afternoon suit you?”
- “Could we pencil in 14:00 provisionally?”
- “Could we pencil in Thursday morning until Finance confirms?”
- “Could you send a short agenda beforehand?”
Tenses for plans, timetables and conditions
After time words such as when, as soon as, after and until, use the present simple or present perfect for the future, not “will”. Many languages use a future form there, so this slip is common. Timetables take the present simple; arrangements take the continuous.
- “I’ll confirm as soon as I’ve checked my travel arrangements.” (time word + present perfect)
- “I’ll call when I arrive.” (time word + present simple)
- “The train leaves at 18:10.” (timetable)
- “I’m meeting the design lead tomorrow.” (arrangement)
- “I’ll send the visitor details now.” (decision now)
The confirmation email in five moves
A firm confirmation is 80–100 words: one job per sentence and a time for every promise. Subject line: “Helsinki launch meeting: Tuesday 14:00”.
“I’m pleased to confirm” is warm and professional; “I hereby confirm” sounds like a contract. Email or call? While a condition is open, call; once it is settled, the email is the record.
- Confirm: “I’m pleased to confirm our first planning meeting for the Helsinki launch at 14:00 on Tuesday in Meeting Room 4.”
- Settle the condition: “I have checked the airport train and expect to arrive by 13:30.”
- Preparation with a deadline: “I will send the one-page risk summary before 10:00 on Tuesday.”
- Thanks: “Thank you for arranging the visitor details.”
- Backup plan: “If my flight is delayed, please contact me on my direct number below.”
Reading numbers and details back
Before you hang up, read contact details back in the same groups.
- “Could I have Leo’s direct number and the best email for the invitation?”
- “Let me read the number back: zero two zero, seven nine four six, one eight three zero.”
Common mistakes
These make a confirmation unclear or slightly impolite:
- “I’ll confirm when I will check the train.” Use “when I’ve checked”.
- “Does Tuesday suit to you?” No “to”: “Does Tuesday suit you?”
- “Could you send an agenda before?” End with “beforehand” or “before the meeting”.
- Writing “The meeting is confirmed.” after a pencil-in. Until the condition is checked, say “provisionally”.
- “I’ll send it soon.” Give a deadline: “before 10:00 on Tuesday”.
A 10-minute daily practice routine
Use a real meeting from your week.
- 2 minutes: say the hold lines with your own day and time: “Would … suit you?”, “Could we pencil in … provisionally?”, “I’ll confirm as soon as I’ve …”.
- 3 minutes: write an 80–100-word confirmation in five moves, with no “will” after “when”.
- 2 minutes: read a phone number back in groups and record it.
- 3 minutes: repeat the call line by line, then change the day, time and reason.
What comes next
Next, write a project update for someone who missed the meeting, then an email that explains what a supplier visit will check.

